What is spanking? We explain to you
A pat during sex… it doesn't hurt. The term in English Spanking refers to the act of hitting the partner during or in the foreplay of the sexual act, either with the hands or other objects such as whips.
Spanking can be pleasurable for both the person doing it and the person receiving the slap, regardless of their roles within the relationship at that time. Many people believe that the practice is directly linked to the BDSM submission and domination, but it doesn't have to be that deep. But if it's the couple's wish, you can too.
Elevating play to role-playing like “king” and “subject,” in which one partner is breaking the law and the other is being punished for it, can be quite exciting and give your sex life a boost. Shall we know more? Keep reading!
How to practice spanking?
Spanking is the least secret sexual practice of all. After all, who has never patted – or slapped – the ass of the person they love? It is even a very common practice among couples.
If you don't practice and feel like it, you can start by gently patting her when she's on all fours. If she likes it, you can take it to other levels, both in strength and technique, and enjoy a nice after-sex handprint.
How to practice spanking? Image: pornpics.com
- So here are some other tips on how to practice spanking:
- The best place to start is with the butt: palms or whips are great.
- Play with dominator and submissive roles.
- The level of intensity of the blows must be defined between the couple. Remember: the line between pleasure and pain is thin.
- Bet on spanking as a preliminary to assess how positive it is between the couple. Having a green light, the practice can be interspersed with other stimuli or even penetration.
- Lastly, we would suggest to go easy on the violence, but there are those who like it. The golden rule is to be consensual.
Communication = good sex
Intensity must be defined between the couple. Image: pornpics.com
The key to any successful sexual practice, be it spanking or other techniques, is good communication. Sitting down and talking about something, especially about expectations and desires to be fulfilled behind closed doors, is the key to success. The quality of your communication will determine the quality of sex, trust us.
So if y'all haven't sat down to talk yet, this is the time. Sit together on a couch and hang out for half an hour, whatever. Establish boundaries, speak clearly – without disgust or shame – what you like and what you don't like in bed, and, mainly, what you would like to try together.
Put spanking on the list, and enjoy the sensations of this practice!
- Carol 2 years in August
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