During sex: what not to say
During sex, many things can happen. It's naturally normal for both to want to spice up the moment by trying new things and risking sexy things behind the other's neck. And that's where the danger may lie. Want to find out why? So come with us and find out what not to say during sex!
As we said earlier, sex opens the door to different experiences: some more unusual and others more common, such as talking about sensual things. It turns out that words have great power to stimulate and spice up sex. But, on the other hand, a wrong word or phrase can also upset and end sex.
I don't think it's something you want, but to avoid taking the risk, it's good that you talk to your partner about it, for example.
It's quite normal for you to consider something good and cool for you and for the other not to be so much. Therefore, to respect and not let the atmosphere end, talk, beat that with your partner about what he would like to hear during sex.
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Although there are no exact words to say, words like daddy and mommy can be more off-putting than you might think. Therefore, these are not words, for example, that encourage you to heat up sex, on the contrary, it ends up making your partner think about why he is saying that.
If these phrases you heard are bad, below we will quote a list of what should NEVER be said during sex.
What not to say during sex
1- “What do you want to do?”
Sex time is the most spontaneous moment possible between two people. As long as it's not scripted porn, there's no such thing.
2- “What a delay” during sex
If it was taking too long to come, now it won't. Everything that was sweet is gone, if there are going to be two angry about the situation and the sex.
3- “So-and-so did it differently”
Sex time is sacred. There shouldn't be anything in the way, much less an unpleasant comparison between so-and-so and your current partner. Saying that is not even to end the sex, but the relationship.
4- “Have you already put it on or entered it?”
Losing the sensitivity of the organ is asking to say these two sentences. Be in the moment and you won't have to ask whether you joined or not. This may sound ironic or even mocking.
5- “Have you taken a shower?”
Inconvenience to this point? Yes, you can believe it exists! Any comment involving personal hygiene is very unpleasant.
6- “Sorry, I won’t do it anymore”
To close the sixth list, don't mention your ex's name. It would suck for that to happen and you could not only screw up the fuck, but the relationship.
We talked a little bit about what not to say, but it would be unfair if I didn't help you, now, on what to say to spice up the relationship, wouldn't it? Therefore, see below the best things to talk about during sex and spice up the sex.
what to say in sex
If on the one hand there is a list of what not to say, on the other there is a list to help you with what to say to spice up the sex. See below:
1. Praise him a lot
There's nothing better than being praised. Telling him he's fucking hot, that his cock is irresistible and big… All of that is hot sex. You can innovate, okay? There are several things that can still be said, such as, for example, “your penis makes me very horny”, “I'm all wet”, “will your dick fit here? It's very big".
Have you noticed, for example, that most compliments have to do with the man's penis and nothing is better than letting him feel safe about it, since the penis is his greatest pride, a pleasure tool for his partner ( and for him, obvious).
2. Magic formula
There is a magic formula to make a man hot with pleasure in bed, and that formula is: action verb + body part + adjective. The formulation of phrases like this has the power to excite your partner in such a great way that if you had known about it before, you would not have ended up having sex (often) unsatisfied.
For you to better understand how the magic formula works, here are some examples: “squeeze my ass really nice, go”, “suck my nipple very slowly, nice” and many other things… spark your imagination.
3. I'm all yours: during sex
A man can't resist knowing you're his property, and saying that during sex is like taking him to heaven. You can even add phrases like “I love it when you take it (name the place)”, “you do it so well”, “keep going, with more force”, “this is too good”, “I'm all yours” and many others…
4. Say objective phrases
Don't create a scenario with a story in the middle of sex... The man is very concentrated and spending his energies focused only on sex and saying very long things can distract him. For this reason, be objective! Saying things like “Keep fucking”, “Go hard” and “Fuck some more” will only help him get laid even more.
You can still not say anything, and moan a lot! The frequency you sound the moan and the intensity, are the thermometers that indicate to the man that he is doing very well (or not). Just be careful not to make the moan artificial and you can use it without moderation, it saw?
5. Control
Thus, the man loves to know that he has control of the transaction with his exclusive property. So he doesn't have anything that drives him crazier than that, so use phrases with the verb "leave". He will automatically associate that he is in charge. Phrases can be “let me go on top now?”, “let me suck your dick?”, “let me…. “, innovate, invent and drive him crazy.
Finally, you have the most precious information you need to know to spice up the sex (or end it if you say something on the topic you shouldn't say). Therefore, use the sex tips do good to make your man horny!
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