Orgy is a very old practice, however, even today it is seen as a huge taboo by our society. When it comes to sex, everyone has their own particularities, and as long as it is within the law, morally acceptable and consensual, everyone's desires should be respected.
Despite the current wave of conservatism, sexuality is increasingly gaining space to be discussed, whether in conversations or on social media. Brazilians have always enjoyed talking dirty and sharing their experiences, and more and more people are finding the courage to express their preferences without limitations. In an orgy, communication, respect and safety must be valued, after all, they are essential for a pleasant and memorable experience.
Therefore, we will explore a little of the different nuances of this practice, addressing a little of the history, necessary care and curiosities about this topic.
In some older cultures, multiple relationships were common and were seen as rituals involving spirituality or social issues. In certain Eastern tribes and cultures, these sexual encounters were seen as the union of members of a community.
Over time, these practices gained a bad reputation and remain so to this day, although several taboos have been broken.
To ensure that the orgy is good for everyone involved, it is important to follow some practices such as:
There's no way around it, sex should involve conversation, especially experiences like an orgy, which end up exposing the intimacy of those involved. Clear communication helps to establish limits and understand each person's expectations regarding the experience. In addition, talking about limits, desires and fears is a way to increase intimacy with the other person.
Some people like it and others don't, this is perfectly normal, however, forcing your partner to participate in an orgy just because you feel like it can undermine your relationship. In sex, the best part is knowing that the other person is also feeling the same pleasure as you, so all parties must consent to what is going to happen and feel comfortable expressing their limits and changing their minds at any time during sex.
Any sexual activity requires responsibility regarding health. The use of condoms is essential, so for a safe orgy, participants should acquire a good quantity of condoms, so that everyone has them at their disposal during sex.
Regular medical check-ups are very important, and this should be made clear to other participants. This practice is a way of showing respect and ensuring safety for everyone involved.
Make sure your head is in order before you venture into sex with multiple people, especially if your partner is participating. After all, feelings of jealousy, shame, insecurity, and regret may arise. Therefore, take care of your emotional health and be absolutely sure that this type of sex is for you. If you feel it is necessary, seek a therapist or counselor about your feelings.
Some people are so sexually open that they don't mind sharing their intimate experiences with friends or even acquaintances, however, many are more reserved, so it is important to be discreet and respect the privacy of others involved in the orgy.
• Establish confidentiality rules: These rules should make sure that everyone understands and respects the privacy that this type of sex requires. This includes not talking about what happens behind closed doors.
• Avoid creating records of the orgy: Filming or taking photos only if everyone involved agrees. Some people even allow sharing as long as their faces are not shown, so make this very clear.
• Always educate yourself: Learning about consensuality and privacy is essential and helps reduce stigma.
Studies show that in intimate group encounters, verbal communication, such as visual communication and gestures, is most commonly used to ensure that everyone feels comfortable.
Many groups of participants like to use safe words in case a member of the orgy decides to stop participating in the act. This helps each member to remain in control.
Some studies show that a huge number of couples seek this type of experience in order to increase confidence, spice up their marriage and even improve communication between them.
According to experts, different and successful sexual experiences such as group sex can help reduce stress and increase participants' self-esteem, making personal acceptance and a sense of freedom deeper.
In some countries, including Brazil, there are events aimed at promoting group sex. In some places, these events can be classified as true secret societies, where the sex is rampant! There are some websites and social networks focused on sex, which are ideal for finding other people who like group sex, one of them is the famous Sexlog.
Within the practice of group sex there are different dynamics, which include simply watching the sex happen, commanding what the participants should do, among others.
Exploring new sexual experiences can be rewarding and empowering. In an orgy, it is essential that everyone involved has the freedom to explore their desires and authenticity in a respectful and conscious way, so that they can take the opportunity to put their desires into practice.